Notes of Significance 

Significance of Hospitality

I was raised in a hospitable home. While our visitors were infrequent, every time a friend came to visit, we always offered a glass of water or cool lemonade within seconds of them entering the home.

Today I heard a very inspirational talk from Dr. Eric Bryant that referenced Refrigerator Rights.

Eric talked about most Americans feeling stressed-out, over-extended, and disconnected…but they’re not sure why. What are we supposed to do about it?

Dr. Will Miller, and therapist and ordained minister has the answer. He advocates changing our hectic lifestyles to embrace the idea of “Refrigerator Rights”-establishing close connections with friends and family who are trusted enough to enter our homes and help themselves to whatever is in the refrigerator.

This makes me think about Kramer on Seinfeld. Should we let people in our house to eat any cereal that we have purchased? Maybe this is a new way of looking at “love thy neighbor.”

This leads us to our weekly riff on what’s significant. What’s significant about good old fashioned hospitality?

  • Reaches out to those beyond our immediate family

  • Balancing self-care and care for others

  • Creating a sense of true community

  • Re-establishes vital social networks

  • Getting comfortable with not being constantly “productive”

  • Learning to go with the flow, take a detour, lose track of time in the company of friends…and rediscover the nourishment of relaxed, mutually satisfying relationships

  • Provides a role model to the next generation about living with a “we mentality.”

  • Cleans out our refrigerator. 🙂

Favorite Podcast of the Week: Showing some ole fashion hospitality to my good friends, Bob and Kelli Phillips (formerly of Texas Country Reporter) we shared a Saturday afternoon cup of coffee together and talked about their On the Road with Kelli and Bob NEW SERIES. Hear the inside story on this new podcast and their breakout from Texas. https://www.spreaker.com/episode/legendary-storytellers-kelli-and-bob-phillips-debut-on-the-road-with-kelli-and-bob-krld-1080–60250418

Quotes I’m Pondering about Hospitality: From Cosmo Kramer on Seinfeld-

“Who’s going to turn down a Junior Mint?” and “These pretzels are making me thirsty.”

Book I’m Reading: Radical Respect by Kim Scott. Loved her riff on giving quiet people at work a voice. Stop the bloviating BS. It’s a form of showing hospitality at work.

Enjoy this week and try to be a little more hospitable.   Rick

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Notes of Significance

In order to prepare for two interviews this past week, we devoted our music research time to Linda Ronstadt. You will enjoy our conversations with the Linda Ronstadt’s tribute band The Works. Riffing about Linda! Linda! show is Cathie Gilbert, lead singer and a dead ringer for Linda. Prodigy pianist David “Lightning” Robison is a great storyteller and adds color to this interview.

So, we are listening to Linda all week long. You’re No Good, Silver Threads and Golden Needles, Blue Bayou, her classic work with The Nelson Riddle Orchestra, smart collaboration with Aaron Neville, and her memorable mariachi era.  It’s really a soundtrack for our lives.

Our love for Linda started in 1976 when she was in concert at Texas A&M performing at the old rodeo arena we called G.Rollie White.  I think 70% of the dorm rooms had her poster nailed to the wall. Listen to her music today, and let it wash over you. We think you can hear the influence of all of her love entanglements with the likes of George Lucas, J.D. Souther, Albert Brooks, Governor Jerry Brown, and yes, Jim Carrey.

Enjoy this: https://www.spreaker.com/user/4383588/linda-ronstadt-tribute-band

This past Friday, one of the greatest crooners of all time, Tony Bennett, left us. Anthony Dominick Benedetto, known professionally as Tony Bennett, was born on August 3, 1926, in Astoria, Queens, New York City. He grew up in a working-class Italian-American family, and from a young age, he showed a passion for singing. Tony’s family was supportive of his talent, and he began performing at local venues and gathering a small following in his teenage years.

In 1949, Tony Bennett got his big break when he was discovered by Pearl Bailey while singing at a nightclub in Greenwich Village. This led to an introduction to Bob Hope, who invited him to perform with him on tour. Soon after, Bennett signed a recording contract with Columbia Records. As a matter of fact, Mr. Hope actually gave Tony his stage name.

In the early 1950s, Tony Bennett’s career began to take off with the release of several successful songs, including “Because of You” and “Rags to Riches.” His smooth, velvety voice and unique phrasing made him stand out as a distinctive vocalist. His signature song, “I Left My Heart in San Francisco,” released in 1962, became an iconic anthem for the city and one of his most beloved hits.

Our personal favorite TB songs included Fly Me to the Moon and That’s Why the Lady’s a Tramp. While you may think of Sinatra with these two tunes, it was Frankie, himself, that named Tony as the top singer of his day.

Honored at the White House by JFK in 1962 and Clinton in 1996, Tony won 20 Grammy’s and virtually every award. In his own  humble and humorous way, Tony said that “when you copy one artist’s style, you are a thief. When you copy many singers, that’s research!”

Of significance, Tony could still remember lyrics to most of his songs until the sweet end of his life. He sang Because of You to his wife, just two days before he passed. Nothing, including Alzheimer’s, could wipe out the memory of the lyrics. Nothing!

Book I’m Reading: You might like this book on the science of the art and science of what we eat. We recommend Tasty by Pulitzer Prize author John McQuaid. My big takeaway is that we should help our grandkids develop diverse taste between the ages of two and three.

Startling Quote I’m Pondering: “I didn’t know why I couldn’t sing – all I knew was that it was muscular or mechanical. Then, when I was diagnosed with Parkinson’s, I was finally given the reason. I now understand that no one can sing with Parkinson’s disease. No matter how hard you try. And in my case, I can’t sing a note.” Linda Ronstadt

Have a good week and share your gifts this week with others.    Rick

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